Life is all about expressing your thought and feelings. There are some people who have feelings but there are no one who can understand their feelings because they have the language of emotions but not the language of words.
While I was wondering along with my friends inside my campus, I saw puppies beside the sewage channel. It was about 8-degrees temperature outside and we were freezing even after having too many clothes on the body. All the puppies are so close to each other to warm up themselves because there is nothing beside their body heat. At that moment, we feel so pity for them because we can see their emotions and can read that pain in their eyes.
The situation has two solutions, either we share our shelter for them or we can inform those people who are authorized for taking care of roadside animals. But we preferred another option we made a beautiful house there only. We also arrange food for them.
After some days we met a different situation because of our different schedule. We have to report to our college every day from the morning to the evening and if there is any plan we fixed then we have to go outside the campus. In this case, we were unable to take care of those puppies so we decided to attract other people so that if no one among us is there for them then there will be someone to take care of them.
Slowly, everyone starts arranging food and as well as clothes for them. Seeing that beautiful arrangement by people, lot many puppies of different doggies are started coming. Some people afraid of adopting roadside animals but with this idea, we feel successful for giving them a survival shelter. We all have to understand, taking birth on the roadside isn’t their fault. They also have a heart anđ emotion like other classified animals.
If you are not adopting the roadside animals then it’s doesn’t matter but at least we can give them shelter, food, and clothes to save their life. So we should have some soft corner for them who have no corner in our society.
We all are surrounded by beautiful souls, who radiate different vibrations for different people. Some of them radiate positive power for us and some radiate negative powers. I observed that most of us capture that negative vibrations in our heart easily rather than the positive one. Majority of our time spend in hating them or to think about, how to get over them. Insult is highly negative power which diminishes the real power in you. And the one who radiates got success on doing those tactics on you.
I remember when the first time I experience the power of insult. That wasn’t me who initially feel it’s an insult, this was another person who makes me realize that the words they said are an insult.
I consider insults are those pebbles which were thrown to divert you from your destination. But as an instant process when someone throws those stones on you then you start reacting on those or try to escape or you throw them back. Which one you choose totally depends on your attitude. But moreover, this is very important how to maintain your inner peace when someone insults you. In this blog, I’ll explain the mindset of those people who insult you and how to respond to them by keeping your mind and heart in peace.
The reason why they insult you:
As I explained that an insult is a powerful tool which is used to attenuate your strength and to make you feel like a weak person. As much as you grow in your career or in your field, nobody will like you and will try to overcome you and when they fail in doing that then they start insulting you for your every move. So that you can’t grow on that speed in which you are growing.
Jealousy in people is common nowadays. Whenever you’ll do anything new or got achievement in your life more than them, they will feel like insulted in their own way and in response they will bounce back that energy to you.
Lack of understanding
In this case when you have your own thoughts and you express in front of them in your words then sometimes lack of understanding makes them feel like insulted and in response, they will use negative words for you in the form of insult so that they can overpower your thoughts.
Playful teasing most of the times are in between the friends only. They insult you show their love for you. But sometimes it becomes negative to them because every word has numerous sense. So be careful even when you are insulting to your buddy because you never know in which mood they are.
How to respond insult:
Stay calm and react less as much as you can. Because sometimes responding with no words has many words you speak.
Express, how you exactly feel so that you can easily cut out that person in your life. But be polite in your words so that their responses can’t affect your internal peace anymore.
Simply ignore, to use this technique for once or twice because you have much important work to do rather than responding them.
Use humor, because with this you turn their insult with no energy. And without energy their insults are powerless.
Report insult; if someone insults you in the social media or social atmosphere then you can’t simply ignore or respond. In this case, you have to report that insult.
Indulge in self-care; In this case, you set your proximity zone where nobody can steal your inner peace. That you exactly want for yourself at the end of the day.