For smoking, Just sit that’s enough

In the era of advancement, we are developing such devices which do our task and to give us some relaxing moments. In this list, teenagers come first. They just want to sit and relax all the time. After entering the home most of the time we spend by sitting only. Sitting gives us the most relaxing position. We did our most of the work while sitting only. Though this position is relaxing but not beneficial to your health and as well as the development of your mind.

I’m relating sitting as a smoking. This doesn’t mean that I’m stopping you to do relax. Relaxing and feeling pleasure while sitting is a different phenomenon and we all must do but for a certain time.

I’m relating too much relaxing with a waste of time and your health. Most of the time we sit and do gossips on the least important things like the life of celebrities, stories of daily soaps and people’s life stories. Actually we all love enjoy doing this but this is producing a slow poison in your mind that makes it sluggish.

Your life needs something productive from you but by wasting your time on these pieces of stuff leads you to make you feeble-minded.

Every sec is important so categorize your time, do gossip, do relax but for a certain time. For an office going people, It’s hard to manage the time but categorization of time is possible. In the case of teenagers and students, smoking is as sitting and wasting their time. Make yourself busy and keep on improving yourself at every moment. For smoking you need not a cigar, sitting and wasting time is enough to sick your time.

Students Buzz for the Job

Everyone has aimed for his life for which they dream of. After graduation, most of the people got entangle in their career and settlement scenarios. In this bouts, getting a satisfactory job is now a day’s become hard-bitten. But in this buzz for the job being skillful is not sufficient you must have an attitude and vision toward your goal. And I think after blending all this you can beat all your competitors so easily.

Today I’ll share some of my visions toward job buzz. These all visions I’m sharing after having a face-to-face conversation with some advisors and HR of companies. If you try to lean a little bit toward it then maybe you can make your own attitude of facing an interview.

FIRST IMPRESSION:

This is important for creating an environment for yourself at the time interview. For this, your physical appearance, your body language, and your etiquettes come under this. For the interviewer, you are an unknown body and these things create an image in front of them.

QUESTIONNAIRE:
  • Be specific to your points
  • Never guess, if you know the answer then hit it if not don’t go round and round
  • Try to give answers as short as possible
  • Be attentive
  • Be polite with your answers
  • Don’t get nervous
ATTITUDE:
  • Be yourself
  • Be confident
  • Make a proper eye contact
  • Avoid non-verbal communication
  • Be focused toward your aim
  • Don’t get emotional in front of them
  • Be positive
  • Don’t use flirty words with interviewer
  • Don’t be so loud
  • Don’t show your aggression toward anything which you don’t like

I know all these stuffs are hard to handle at a time. The moment you face the situation, you everything you learnt. But one thing that is most important to remember during your interview that you are the person who really need this job and you have to make this happen for yourself. So feel free, take a long breathe and own it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love or Lust…??

DOES INTIMACY REALLY DEFINE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP??

Love, the symbol of purity, loyalty, and trust is imprisoned in everyone’s heart. In this universe, everyone is connected by a supernatural power,  i.e. called LOVE.

In teenage, fallen in love is very common. We strongly believe at first sight, love. But now a day’s love has many needs. The definition of love has been changed totally. We heard lots of stories of ancient time about immortal love, but now those messages aren’t meant for knowing values, but caged in a storybook or in historical place or somewhere encrypted on ice. But my question is, does love need any kind of physicality to prove that they are in real love..??

Through a case study, I observed that now a day’s most of the people are getting physical before they fall in love. There are two types of people who believe, before and after marriage intimacy concept.  Just because lack of knowledge and amelioration they have forgotten the real value of love and intimacy. Intimacy is much more than to get in bed, it is that kind of power and symbol of purity which gives birth to a new world. But to understand this we need to get into the arena of love. These two concepts are made by us to protect the humanity and form misleading of teenagers. So we should respect all these values.

Before marriage intimacy is very common nowadays and this vision is not despicable, we just need to understand all pros and cons of it. A little awareness can help you a lot. In teenage everyone wants to go with the flow, but for us it is a little bit difficult to understand all these taboos. So for this, we can ask our self once, Is that right time and place?? The answer of this question definitely can lead you in a right direction.

After marriage people start thinking that they have been authorized for doing this. But I think marriage is not that certificate or license for free intimacy. It’s an inner feeling which comes after a certain time cause this is beyond bliss. Intimacy can never make your relationship healthy, it is that kind of feeling which comes after being healthy in a relationship.

Reading all this, I think you can understand what actual healthy relationship is. So do care,  protect and love to your partner. Cause love has no dimension. So make each other free to have a healthy and happy relationship cause this is not you need, this is what you need to each other.

The Struggle of TeenAgers

STRUGGLING TEENS, A battle for the better life

It’s true that after taking birth, we take two more, one while we are selecting our future and secondly when we got married. These two phases are breath holding stages of one’s life. These two decisions play an important role to shape our lives. But now we have been entangled in the net of society and we call it struggle.

 

  • The tide of trendy education

In 19’s we educate ourselves for battle (war’s) and now we are battling for education. We have been completely bounded in the arena of grades. We Keep fighting to win that battle and to get good grades. But for all struggling teenagers, the real battle starts after the completion of graduation, where their good grades are not sufficient to win that battle and that we called a real battle for a better life (better future). We choose that orientation (career), which is more progressive and in the trend of the education system. We are ready to flow in any current, whichever seems little trendy and profitable. That’s why we keep searching for what to do and how to do.

 

  • Reputation of career

We can’t choose our career out of the box because we are not allowed to do so. To make our passion as a future takes lots of guts because then we would consider as anti-social elements. The pressure of repute career creating a struggle for teens and bounding their energy inside the nacelle.

  • The early age, earning

Without knowing what’s what we would rather concentrate on earning and that craving for earning disturbs the education system and after that our struggle becomes harder and harder because sometimes moral education learned us how to come over it and we never thought of this way. As a result, we keep running direction-less and goes nowhere very fast.

                    

  • A load of your friend’s pocket

It’s a matter of self-esteem, I’m better than him so my salary must be better than that of. Due to this attitude, we can never be self-satisfied. This creates a high pressure inside for a better job and then we start struggling for our self-esteem and not for self-satisfaction. As a result, we bound our mind just for making money and in the race of high esteem salary, we actually forgot our inner passion and qualities that make us even more happy and satisfied.