I learned this from my hostel classroom

Chapters to be continued…

Hostel time is a classroom of experiences, the experience of life. Wherever you go, you fall, you stand and learn how to walk this is a circle of life. After that, you made your rules according to the priority for living life. Just like all, I learned so many lessons from my hostel life and to share them with you guys will make me feel pleasure. And I’m sure these small lines will surely make big difference in your life.

Getting the success and the achievements are different but learning the lesson of life is a different thing. You will never know when small things will become a large thing and sometimes to understand that you need to go beyond your peace and imagination. People will use you and will take the advantage of your care and innocence. This will become a slow process if you ignore the instruction give below about your inner peace of the life.
When we enter the room first, everything seems to be yours and all the people will behave like you are with your best innocent buddies. And later on, we keep sharing about the life for being close. Yes, some people will be good and be like you but to understand this you need to give a proper time to understand them before making any bond with them.

  • Never trust the people at the time of your initial days.

 

  • Never share your personal problem and secret at a very early stage. No matter how best he/she is. At least give 7-8 months to your friendship to differentiate between real and fake one.

 

  • Never try to be mediocre, if you try to be then you’ll become the victim of the situation.

 

  • Never trust the one who tries to be overfriendly or cares too much.

 

  • Never care too much for anyone because once you are mistaken at any moment, they will ignore all your efforts and care and will remember your unfavorable part until the end.

 

  • Never react to the situation so early because you never know who is provoking you or trying to make you as a victim.

 

  • Try to complain less about any situation. Less complaining will lead you to less vibration of peace.

 

  • Never try to involve in calling in the late night at the starting. This may resist your craving or pleasure but trust me this will save you from the garbage minds.

 

  • Always remember your motives, for which you are there. Put your more focus on that rather than any pleasure or distractive matter.

 

  • Always maintain a proper distance from negativity and negative people. They will come to you in the form of attraction and distraction and both are dangerous to you.

 

  • People will try to impress you by giving compliments and appraisal but it is your responsibility to understand the motives behind that. For this, you need to accept that compliment with a big smile but not to be affected by that.

Everyone tries to be king in front of all and for that, they will try to push you down to show them up. You can also be a part of tactics of some bad peoples but the best way to detach yourself without overreacting.

These are some point which I feel I should adopt but some situation isn’t our hand they heel by the time only so without worrying maintain all your focus on your aim rather than any game. And trust me with this you will win your race without defeating anyone and be repeating any mistake.

 

lack of time

Do we have a lack of Time?

We have already heard a lot that time never waits for anyone. Till now we have touched unapproachable sky limits under and above. We are working to make Mars as our second home. But beyond all this time is the only thing in which people have no control over it.

For a better survival in this world, money is the leading factor. We spend our whole day and night to earn money and at the last, we even don’t have time to spend it wisely and happily. I met many people facing this exact situation but they made themselves happy in a very smart convincing manner. We sacrifice our family time to make our family happy. We even don’t take proper attention towards our health and we called that we don’t have sufficient time for this. But we are right that we don’t have time to live in a fast running and unstoppable race of the world. We don’t have time to eat, sleep and breathe even. We are aging by time and mind but our soul is caged in the net of time.

I’ve talked to many people from different areas and about 98% are suffering from stress. For this, we can follow many easy steps which I’m currently using. This isn’t about hard and fast rules or any philosophical method. For living life just a little bit awareness about yourself is sufficient. If you are office working, then being single-minded for work can make your time stressful. We can start wishing to those to whom we never talk and to can be sarcastic in the middle of the work. Smiling is the best way to make your stressful time even more light. That is your atmosphere so why can’t we make it a happy environment.

Electrolyzing of time for relations and work can help you to live in a better way. Leave your entire work pressure and aggression till the office border only and while you are leaving office then make sure that you are now completely detached. While entering to home attaches yourself with those relations for whom you are living, laugh, eat, sit together and gather memories. All the success stories, love stories start with the time and end with the time only so rather than focusing on earning stress we can concentrate on living life. And remember lack of time is not the problem flowing of time in an uncertain way creates the problems.

 

 

Five essences are essential for life

Life is creative if you think of creating  with these five essences

We have already listened to so many theories about the life scenario. We, the people have the quality of seeing the same thing differently. “One can see the hope of life in the dark and death in the flourished park”. Life isn’t about your existence in the earth, Its all about your hope, desire, imagination, willpower, and positivity. These five essences can fragrance your soul completely.

If I talk about birds they keep immigrate themselves in the search of food, place and family safety. I see those five essences in them.  We all consider yourself as an intellectual people because we have a developed mind but after a certain saturation, we try to find a place where we can have peace and happiness in our life. Yes, I consider that birds don’t have developed mind but they have developed a heart. They actually know how to find happiness under and over the clouds. In between the beginning of the existence to the peaceful death, the journey they travel inspired to each and every people. I’ve listed some essence which I feel for you all

beginning of life
  • Find your deep roots, your origin, your existence first.

 

  • Happiness is over the cloud, Do not wait for clearing that horrible cloud just go and find your happiness.

 

  • The best pain healer is smiling so smile when you can’t.

 

  • Think above your need, demand, and weakness that can never make your life sanguine.

 

  • Trust is the most important thing, invest in yourself rather than investing in others.

 

  • Money is like a flowing water, you can’t have the same rupee in your hand. Once it has gone, it’s gone just like the moments of your life.

 

  • Everything in this world we can purchase but not the peace of mind, this you have to earn by spending some alone time with yourself.

 

  • Invest your time in the wellness of humanity and spend your time on the happiness of your family.

 

  • Keep your learning mode on. There are so many beautiful souls around you so try to catch one brick from them and make your life creative.

 

  • Life is so creative so explore your every single zone and I’m sure you’ll find something different at every step to create a peaceful structure.

No one can predict what is life about but I’m sure these fundamentals surely can give you some beautiful structure.  Do believe in doing things and finding things, this isn’t about going on a mission and working hard for this. something small creation can create a huge dimension. You know your destination of life so rather than filling up your mind with garbage and thinking all the time of removing it, try to divert your mind for collecting these five essences.

Do your business but not of YOUR LIFE

Is this your business…

Summer is the time fruits are most appealing and it is the season of The king of fruits, Mango. On the business aspects, this is the peak time for the fruit vendors. Everybody wants to expand their shop and for this, they don’t care about anything in sense of security.

Today I was walking on a roadside in the search of fresh fruits, I saw so many stalls were in the roadside only. Those were small but have lots of variety of fresh fruits. You can found all kind of healthy fruits which are easily come-at-able in the supermarket. The quality of those fruits of that tiny stalls is like they plucked from orchard only and the cost is feasible at your hand.

Today I’m not discriminating myself about which is good and which is bad but about the security issues. Yet those stalls are good in many aspects but what they are doing to yourself. Those guys are completely blindfolded about life security.

All we know that in the buzz of the crowded city there is a scarcity of place. To buy a small shop you in the main market area you have to pay a lot. But this doesn’t means guys that you can put your stall anywhere without taking care of your health.

I’ve some pictures where there you can see real danger. The poles are fully loaded with charged wire without the grounding of a pole. I don’t think so they are unaware of electrical shock exigency but still, they are putting their life at risk every day every time.

Stall beside an electrical pole
The vendor is arranging shop with the help of an electrical pole. And the pole has lots of charged wire.
Arranging shop with the help of an electrical pole

Yes, Money does matter a lot for everyone but it is not good to earn money by selling your life. Do your business but not of your life. Do not make your stall where there is the danger of your life. So find a proper to put your stall and spread the volatility of fruits by taking care your security aspects.

The Struggle of TeenAgers

STRUGGLING TEENS, A battle for the better life

It’s true that after taking birth, we take two more, one while we are selecting our future and secondly when we got married. These two phases are breath holding stages of one’s life. These two decisions play an important role to shape our lives. But now we have been entangled in the net of society and we call it struggle.

 

  • The tide of trendy education

In 19’s we educate ourselves for battle (war’s) and now we are battling for education. We have been completely bounded in the arena of grades. We Keep fighting to win that battle and to get good grades. But for all struggling teenagers, the real battle starts after the completion of graduation, where their good grades are not sufficient to win that battle and that we called a real battle for a better life (better future). We choose that orientation (career), which is more progressive and in the trend of the education system. We are ready to flow in any current, whichever seems little trendy and profitable. That’s why we keep searching for what to do and how to do.

 

  • Reputation of career

We can’t choose our career out of the box because we are not allowed to do so. To make our passion as a future takes lots of guts because then we would consider as anti-social elements. The pressure of repute career creating a struggle for teens and bounding their energy inside the nacelle.

  • The early age, earning

Without knowing what’s what we would rather concentrate on earning and that craving for earning disturbs the education system and after that our struggle becomes harder and harder because sometimes moral education learned us how to come over it and we never thought of this way. As a result, we keep running direction-less and goes nowhere very fast.

                    

  • A load of your friend’s pocket

It’s a matter of self-esteem, I’m better than him so my salary must be better than that of. Due to this attitude, we can never be self-satisfied. This creates a high pressure inside for a better job and then we start struggling for our self-esteem and not for self-satisfaction. As a result, we bound our mind just for making money and in the race of high esteem salary, we actually forgot our inner passion and qualities that make us even more happy and satisfied.

 

 

 

 

YES I’M DIFFERENT

In the array of men and woman, every single human being is trumped up by unique features. Yes, I’m talking about the population of 7.6 billion. There are Lots many people, but not a single clone. You’ve heard numerous definitions about Being different,  but in what definition you fit in, individuate ours from others.

What makes you different, your scorecard…?? Or maybe some adorn qualities. For being different I don’t think so there must be any criteria or conditions. You born with some qualities and you born many qualities by your own actually that makes you different.

Today I met the twins of an almost similar kind, same physique, same color of choice, same liking of food and ultimate understanding. Even though they are from the same originator and having such a huge similarity, but while talking to them, I realized they had a drastic change. Why I’m telling all this…?? I don’t have any differentiation parameter. But this is you who makes you different. You create yourself for being special. Knowing everything sometimes not makes you different or special, representing yourself in such a manner that everybody can feel your flame even though you don’t know anything. It sounds critic, but ultimately you are the queen of your Queensland.

This is a matter of every single girl who hasn’t 99 percentile and neither they have won any beauty pageant nor well versed in cooking, and all but they believe that they are different, and their beliefs make them different. So for this, I can simply say YES, everyone is different in their own kind.