I learned this from my hostel classroom

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Hostel time is a classroom of experiences, the experience of life. Wherever you go, you fall, you stand and learn how to walk this is a circle of life. After that, you made your rules according to the priority for living life. Just like all, I learned so many lessons from my hostel life and to share them with you guys will make me feel pleasure. And I’m sure these small lines will surely make big difference in your life.

Getting the success and the achievements are different but learning the lesson of life is a different thing. You will never know when small things will become a large thing and sometimes to understand that you need to go beyond your peace and imagination. People will use you and will take the advantage of your care and innocence. This will become a slow process if you ignore the instruction give below about your inner peace of the life.
When we enter the room first, everything seems to be yours and all the people will behave like you are with your best innocent buddies. And later on, we keep sharing about the life for being close. Yes, some people will be good and be like you but to understand this you need to give a proper time to understand them before making any bond with them.

  • Never trust the people at the time of your initial days.

 

  • Never share your personal problem and secret at a very early stage. No matter how best he/she is. At least give 7-8 months to your friendship to differentiate between real and fake one.

 

  • Never try to be mediocre, if you try to be then you’ll become the victim of the situation.

 

  • Never trust the one who tries to be overfriendly or cares too much.

 

  • Never care too much for anyone because once you are mistaken at any moment, they will ignore all your efforts and care and will remember your unfavorable part until the end.

 

  • Never react to the situation so early because you never know who is provoking you or trying to make you as a victim.

 

  • Try to complain less about any situation. Less complaining will lead you to less vibration of peace.

 

  • Never try to involve in calling in the late night at the starting. This may resist your craving or pleasure but trust me this will save you from the garbage minds.

 

  • Always remember your motives, for which you are there. Put your more focus on that rather than any pleasure or distractive matter.

 

  • Always maintain a proper distance from negativity and negative people. They will come to you in the form of attraction and distraction and both are dangerous to you.

 

  • People will try to impress you by giving compliments and appraisal but it is your responsibility to understand the motives behind that. For this, you need to accept that compliment with a big smile but not to be affected by that.

Everyone tries to be king in front of all and for that, they will try to push you down to show them up. You can also be a part of tactics of some bad peoples but the best way to detach yourself without overreacting.

These are some point which I feel I should adopt but some situation isn’t our hand they heel by the time only so without worrying maintain all your focus on your aim rather than any game. And trust me with this you will win your race without defeating anyone and be repeating any mistake.

 

Making of my life in the Hostel

HOSTEL seems a very small word but this is a place where a person learns lots of the basic lessons of life. I hope, most of the experienced this phase of life and if anyone not experienced this then I suggest you to guys to live this golden life at least once in the life. I’m telling this golden time because I learned reality scenario of the life. As a hosteller, I spend 5years of my life in the hostel.

What makes hostel life different from home life. For this question, there are lots of answers but the main one is THE SURVIVAL OF YOUR REALITY. Here we learn how to survive even in the worst condition and in the best condition.

I’ve clearly remembered my first day in the hostel. I was a bit curious to see my room, where I’ve to spend my whole bachelor life. And later on I got to know that the room is not the only mine, I’ve to spend it with two more. But still I was so happy and a little bit worried to meet my roommates. After that my parents left me alone with that empty room, that time I feel, something is losing from my hand and I cried a lot. Later on, the day’s been cut out from the calendar and I started liking it. But what makes this special and memorable…

Birthday Parties

This is the favourite part of my in hostel life. Our whole hostel group comes to celebrate and to give surprises to the birthday girl. We, secretly plan for the party. And in the night it was like a boom, birthday bombs, the cake cutting ceremony, dance and lots of fun. we hardly can have a single piece of cake to eat because rest of is only for face massage.

Birthday Decoration
Handmade card decore
Late Night Study

Ahh… When a word study comes to my mind, then it definitely relates to exams of course. Even in the 4:00 am and its feel like, there is Diwali in the hostel. Some of studying on the stairs, some on the balcony and the room is like a marriage hall. And yes, this is the coffee time now and that time Maggie had been a national food for us. we exactly relate our hunger with Maggie.

Choco crust and Vanilla valley
Warden Terror

Warden cum harridan is like a terror in our life. we used to call her with different funny names. Her universal dialogs, midnight checking, ever-changing rules and late night dramas all are so special to me. Though, that time I got frustrated but later on It’s being a fun challenge for us.

Hostel Food

I’ve heard lots of stories about the hostel food and I like that food of the starting months. But as the time passes, we totally got bored of that. So most of the time we order something or go to any Dhabas and all.

Friday special
Pizza Party
Washroom Fight

That is the funniest part of the hostel, early morning everybody is in a rush to go to college so the fight starts occupying the washroom first. We used to set our bucket in the night only because there is a rule to take bath according to your bucket number and we definitely, go to someone else bucket number. And after that, you’ll see a different kind of cat fights.

Ambulance Time

Once in a week, definitely there is one girl who got sick. For that, we girls are ever ready to go to the hospital. Yes, there is care factor but more of this we got a chance to go outside in the middle of the night. later on whenever we want to have something outsider food then we got sick or make sick someone else forcefully. And the best drama queen becomes the patient.

These are some things which make hostel life is a survival life. we learn to behave, react to the situation and to learn all kind of makeup courses. There are different kind of girls from different places with a different attitude and to live with them learns us to polish our endurance.