I learned this from my hostel classroom

Chapters to be continued…

Hostel time is a classroom of experiences, the experience of life. Wherever you go, you fall, you stand and learn how to walk this is a circle of life. After that, you made your rules according to the priority for living life. Just like all, I learned so many lessons from my hostel life and to share them with you guys will make me feel pleasure. And I’m sure these small lines will surely make big difference in your life.

Getting the success and the achievements are different but learning the lesson of life is a different thing. You will never know when small things will become a large thing and sometimes to understand that you need to go beyond your peace and imagination. People will use you and will take the advantage of your care and innocence. This will become a slow process if you ignore the instruction give below about your inner peace of the life.
When we enter the room first, everything seems to be yours and all the people will behave like you are with your best innocent buddies. And later on, we keep sharing about the life for being close. Yes, some people will be good and be like you but to understand this you need to give a proper time to understand them before making any bond with them.

  • Never trust the people at the time of your initial days.

 

  • Never share your personal problem and secret at a very early stage. No matter how best he/she is. At least give 7-8 months to your friendship to differentiate between real and fake one.

 

  • Never try to be mediocre, if you try to be then you’ll become the victim of the situation.

 

  • Never trust the one who tries to be overfriendly or cares too much.

 

  • Never care too much for anyone because once you are mistaken at any moment, they will ignore all your efforts and care and will remember your unfavorable part until the end.

 

  • Never react to the situation so early because you never know who is provoking you or trying to make you as a victim.

 

  • Try to complain less about any situation. Less complaining will lead you to less vibration of peace.

 

  • Never try to involve in calling in the late night at the starting. This may resist your craving or pleasure but trust me this will save you from the garbage minds.

 

  • Always remember your motives, for which you are there. Put your more focus on that rather than any pleasure or distractive matter.

 

  • Always maintain a proper distance from negativity and negative people. They will come to you in the form of attraction and distraction and both are dangerous to you.

 

  • People will try to impress you by giving compliments and appraisal but it is your responsibility to understand the motives behind that. For this, you need to accept that compliment with a big smile but not to be affected by that.

Everyone tries to be king in front of all and for that, they will try to push you down to show them up. You can also be a part of tactics of some bad peoples but the best way to detach yourself without overreacting.

These are some point which I feel I should adopt but some situation isn’t our hand they heel by the time only so without worrying maintain all your focus on your aim rather than any game. And trust me with this you will win your race without defeating anyone and be repeating any mistake.

 

we are “THE OUTSIDERS”

This blog is totally dedicated to the era of our college time life. Everybody loves to hang out with friends and for this, there is no repression neither time nor anything. I think everybody has a group in which some are day’s scholar and some are hosteller. And for having a get-together we always try to find a new place to hang out. In the journey of college time we try not repeat any places and for this, we always go for the hunt of new places. Actually, the place doesn’t matter, what matters is the love and bonding we share during the journey. Outing with friends is the most pleasuring thing in this world. At every moment you feel adventures, thrill, and contentment. 

A way to trip

And what about plannings, I don’t think so it will work in this case.  Behind every successful outing, there is always an unsuccessful planning. But we still try to make this happen. Its kind of, we are going for the gold digging with all the required equipment, map, and many more pieces of stuff. I think this is more than this.

                         Unconditional bonding

Where to go

For this, we take hours and days to think about it but always random planning’s get successful. This happens because we all have different moods and taste and it will take some time to synchronize it properly.

Exhibition

Time to collect the money

When the place is decided then what’s next. Sometimes budget deicide the place so we do collect best possible pocket money for this. And for setting this all, makes a lot of fun because we finish it by having lots of chiller ( money in the form of coins) in our hands.

A short budget trip
Pocket money

Arrangement of transportation

The arrangement of bikes and scooter and borrowing it from others is a big task. If the journey is long then transportation is not a big issue but for the journey within our arena, we need to take care of so many aspects of security and safety and many more.

Camera Time

This being a favourite part of us. These are not just pictures we take, these all are memories that we take with our self forever. Everybody hates for being cameraman so having selfies is the best option ever. By seeing these pictures after a long time rejuvenates us completely.

Every time love for Chai (Tea)

I think this is a kind of power drink for us. Fooding for sometimes and Chai for every time and longtime. When we all got tired then chai being the favourite part for us.

Chai

There are so many elements of outing, once you get into this you’ll realize how beautiful is this. But the life is running fast so rather concentrate on living life and capturing moments. As the time passes our priorities also change but these moments you can never prioritize.