The Fresher

Everywhere in any field, there are two categorizations of people, the fresher and the experienced. When you are experienced, things become so easy to handle for you. You know how to handle, work, expose things, synchronization with people and work. Experience doesn’t depend upon your age or education it totally depends upon how much you handle all the situation even in the peak pressure.

Working life and the educational life of fresher is totally different. If I talk about educational life then your every moving step towards your education has to face a lot many fresher and as well as experienced phases. In the school times every day you have a role of a senior and junior until you reach the edge of the schooling. From there we learned that to guide, help and secure every junior is our moral duty. And this duty should be selfless for everyone and every time.

When we move on to the bachelor’s period then things are all same but the atmosphere and circumstances change their mind and behavior. But in this case, fresher have to face lots of problems with their development and guidance. Now their guidance exists in the zone of selfishness and demands. Some take it as an experience and some take it as a revenge which they carry forward for their upcoming juniors.

Learning is important for every individual and if it is mixed with guidance and support then the development of the nation becomes so easy.

Now when we move to the career settlement then we see a broad spectrum of competition and extraction of fresher energy and skills without giving them benefits. It becomes a hard situation and atmosphere for fresher to grow and develop in that arena. Sometimes it makes their performance sluggish. I explained some points to make the learning life of fresher easy.

  • Respect all the seniors even though they aren’t giving any benefits.

 

  • Improve your hearing skill for better response and result.

 

  • Sometimes we feel that we aren’t guided properly but maybe our guide prepares a new way of learning.

 

  • Always remember, you can’t learn all things all of sudden so have patience and trust to your guide.

 

  • Your promotion is important than your learning so give first preference to your learning.

 

  • For learning, you have to help your colleagues also without thinking any self-benefits. In this way, you will make yourself a conceptually clear person and you’ll also develop guiding skills as well.

 

  • Take pressure but not stress.

 

  • Improve your skills in the different dimension even though it’s not related to your current work.

 

  • Seniors may and may not help you but you always try to help your seniors and colleagues beyond your self-zone.

 

  • Everything depends upon your result so be focused and cantered for your work and performance.

The duration of fresher to the experienced isn’t full of pain and rejection only. There are so many good events and awards to make them encourage so enjoy every moment with learning modes.

Learning is a fire which must be alive in the heart and mind of every one. So being an experienced person is much better than being a fresher for a learning life.

I learned this from my hostel classroom

Chapters to be continued…

Hostel time is a classroom of experiences, the experience of life. Wherever you go, you fall, you stand and learn how to walk this is a circle of life. After that, you made your rules according to the priority for living life. Just like all, I learned so many lessons from my hostel life and to share them with you guys will make me feel pleasure. And I’m sure these small lines will surely make big difference in your life.

Getting the success and the achievements are different but learning the lesson of life is a different thing. You will never know when small things will become a large thing and sometimes to understand that you need to go beyond your peace and imagination. People will use you and will take the advantage of your care and innocence. This will become a slow process if you ignore the instruction give below about your inner peace of the life.
When we enter the room first, everything seems to be yours and all the people will behave like you are with your best innocent buddies. And later on, we keep sharing about the life for being close. Yes, some people will be good and be like you but to understand this you need to give a proper time to understand them before making any bond with them.

  • Never trust the people at the time of your initial days.

 

  • Never share your personal problem and secret at a very early stage. No matter how best he/she is. At least give 7-8 months to your friendship to differentiate between real and fake one.

 

  • Never try to be mediocre, if you try to be then you’ll become the victim of the situation.

 

  • Never trust the one who tries to be overfriendly or cares too much.

 

  • Never care too much for anyone because once you are mistaken at any moment, they will ignore all your efforts and care and will remember your unfavorable part until the end.

 

  • Never react to the situation so early because you never know who is provoking you or trying to make you as a victim.

 

  • Try to complain less about any situation. Less complaining will lead you to less vibration of peace.

 

  • Never try to involve in calling in the late night at the starting. This may resist your craving or pleasure but trust me this will save you from the garbage minds.

 

  • Always remember your motives, for which you are there. Put your more focus on that rather than any pleasure or distractive matter.

 

  • Always maintain a proper distance from negativity and negative people. They will come to you in the form of attraction and distraction and both are dangerous to you.

 

  • People will try to impress you by giving compliments and appraisal but it is your responsibility to understand the motives behind that. For this, you need to accept that compliment with a big smile but not to be affected by that.

Everyone tries to be king in front of all and for that, they will try to push you down to show them up. You can also be a part of tactics of some bad peoples but the best way to detach yourself without overreacting.

These are some point which I feel I should adopt but some situation isn’t our hand they heel by the time only so without worrying maintain all your focus on your aim rather than any game. And trust me with this you will win your race without defeating anyone and be repeating any mistake.