The Art of prospect

Be careful while doodling a prospect on the dot

Having a prospect and a making prospect is an art, which takes lots of evaluation and analysis to flow in a proper direction. People in the whole world are from different origin so they have completely different prospect for the same thing. So having prospect is not a question but making prospect inherent a deep thinking and substantiations. A little deviation creates a huge difference just like the formation of a DNA. If there are any change DNA strands and links then the total formation of that structure changes.

I heard a lot from people’s mouth that you are not that one I thought of you before. This shows that we made a prospect immediately by seeing the behavior and dressing sense only and later on, we do regret on our decision after knowing the inner structure and beauty of that person. Just like that if we see any incident happening in front of our eyes then immediately we do our prospect publically without using our intelligence. Sometimes that will harmful to that person and sometimes that creates a negative image of you. So be careful while doodling a prospect on the dot.

Today we easily make prospects by seeing person behavior, attitude and dressing sense. This habit affects us a lot for making any prospect toward any person and distracts you to reach to that inner magnetism. This damaged chain starts increasing and makes a damage formation of our inner prospects which is much harmful that having a prospect. I’m discussing here some simple keynotes, hope that will assist you for a better vision of seeing things around you.

  • Find the origin of prospect.

 

  • Listen more than you talk, it is a better way to reach to the origin.

 

  • Knowledge is important, Have a complete knowledge about that topic or issues or that person and then share your prospect regarding this.

 

  • Gather, Frame and then make any structure of prospects. I’m sure that will keep satisfying you for your whole life.

 

  • Match the craziness and the frequency about that topic or that person that will lead you to form a better prospect.

According to Brad DeHaven, People are like snowflakes, you can never match two identical one. So how can be your prospect for one person and one issue can be the same.  Prospect is like drawing an outline of that person or any issue and for drawing that line you need to understand the whole structure of that object to the limit. I hope these five full stops will help you to make a clear vision before making a prospect.

 

 

 

Decode your partner’s language

A common language of Men and women’s understanding

In the whole world, men say that it is really difficult to understand women and women keep complaining about what men are trying to say. Lot many sarcasm is there for understanding men and women vocabulary but still no results are there. But I must say, in this universe men and women are totally a different creature, their way of thinking, emotions, reaction, behavior, attitudes and facial expressions, all are completely different for the same situation.

Through a research, it is found that if women and men stuck in the same situation then their way of handling situation is completely different they follow the nature’s rules. Women find the solution by keeping heart and mind factor but in the case of men they use 90% of their brain only to find the solution. Their heart and emotions come secondary.

Let us take one example, If there is one intruder like an animal, enters to your home then women think of protecting their family without hurting that animal but men have a quality of hunting and protecting both so at that instant they will think of protecting their family by killing that animal. Their emotions will not affect the decision of protecting the family. It doesn’t mean that they don’t have heart or they are cruel it just an attitude of seeing and handling things because different creature responds differently. This is a set rule of nature.

Nowadays these nature’s qualities have become hard to understand but it’s ok. Today I’ll explain some basic quotes which may make your life easy and understandable toward your partner.

Women’s brogue:

  • If women say ‘YES’

    then don’t get distracted, actually, she is trying to say a ‘Big NO’ and vice verse.

  • I think we need to buy this for us…

Actually, she’s saying that I Badly need this for me. And I want it now.

  • Do whatever you like my baby.

Don’t be happy guys, she’s actually giving a threat that you have to pay for all your sins later in my perfect moment.

  • I think we need to talk seriously.

Boys you are in danger because this time she’s well prepared with a long list of complaints with different attributes that you even can’t imagine in your dreams. And it’s sure that no one can protect you except some almighty powers.

  • I think you need to learn how to communicate with a girl,

    A very famous one, Boys I must say, Just simply say, Yes baby you are right. Play on a safer zone if you want to sleep happily in the night

  • What you can do for me if you love me.

Time to check your pocket and to invest all your savings on her. Good luck

  • NO NO, I’m not sad. I’m perfect, don’t worry.

Actually, she’s is trying to say YES YES I’m in big trouble and you need to do something for me. Actually, in this case, a healthy communication works a lot. Women have a quality of oozing problems just by sharing and after that she makes herself pacific, calm and motionless for some time.

  • I’m not ready for this before marriage

    It means you need to work hard to convince her to make some love. By gifting, making her comfortable, listening to her all the time and arranging a short trip make this happen for you… MAYBE

  • Let’s get married

The highest commitment by a woman explains that you need to be settled according to the need of her family status. So put your shoes on and go to the work and earn money.

  • What you think that I’m getting fatty more and more

I think you need to find a blindfold this time and then put it on your eyes gently, take a deep breath and say… No baby you are looking perfect, I mean this dress is looking fabulous on you.

Men’s brogue:

  • YES, I need this

    It means that yeah I need this. Give it to me. It is that simple that we girls don’t think about it. So be easy on this.

  • I love you, baby…

These fantastic lines come when he is in a deep desire of intimacy. Men never wait for the happy mood they just make it anytime.

  • My mind isn’t working baby…

It reveals the desire and demand for making love. Even if you aren’t in the mood then make this happen to make his mind light and sparking again. And in the morning he will be your slave again.

  • Ok, Let’s get married

I think this time men totally get tired of making love once a month now they need it for all your night and days.

  • You are looking sexy

 Actually, he’s imagining you naked and he’s in a deep yearning of making night colorful.

  • I’m busy right now

Then he actually needs some alone time. So girls don’t think that he’s ignoring you and want to a breakup or something else. He simply needs some alone time and nothing else.

  • I’ll call you later…

It’s a small demonstration that he is in middle of something or with someone. Just give him some time and he will surely call you back with lots of love.

Today I try to decode some common quotes from men and women. These are some simple way of understanding your partner’s feelings and thoughts. And I believe that this small spark is enough to light up all the garden of love.

 

Students Buzz for the Job

Everyone has aimed for his life for which they dream of. After graduation, most of the people got entangle in their career and settlement scenarios. In this bouts, getting a satisfactory job is now a day’s become hard-bitten. But in this buzz for the job being skillful is not sufficient you must have an attitude and vision toward your goal. And I think after blending all this you can beat all your competitors so easily.

Today I’ll share some of my visions toward job buzz. These all visions I’m sharing after having a face-to-face conversation with some advisors and HR of companies. If you try to lean a little bit toward it then maybe you can make your own attitude of facing an interview.

FIRST IMPRESSION:

This is important for creating an environment for yourself at the time interview. For this, your physical appearance, your body language, and your etiquettes come under this. For the interviewer, you are an unknown body and these things create an image in front of them.

QUESTIONNAIRE:
  • Be specific to your points
  • Never guess, if you know the answer then hit it if not don’t go round and round
  • Try to give answers as short as possible
  • Be attentive
  • Be polite with your answers
  • Don’t get nervous
ATTITUDE:
  • Be yourself
  • Be confident
  • Make a proper eye contact
  • Avoid non-verbal communication
  • Be focused toward your aim
  • Don’t get emotional in front of them
  • Be positive
  • Don’t use flirty words with interviewer
  • Don’t be so loud
  • Don’t show your aggression toward anything which you don’t like

I know all these stuffs are hard to handle at a time. The moment you face the situation, you everything you learnt. But one thing that is most important to remember during your interview that you are the person who really need this job and you have to make this happen for yourself. So feel free, take a long breathe and own it.