Is Sexual Abuse common or fashion

Girls on demand but nobody knows her demand…

The Lady, a symbol of goddess, love, affection, care, worship, sacrifice called by so many names. But the definition of the lady in an evil mind is different. They treated the lady as a source of earning and self-desire. The rate of victims is increasing day by day. The reason may be different but the motives crime is the same, THE BUSINESS OF BODY. This is considered as an evergreen business. Every day so many girls stole and sold.

How people provoked to do such a horrendous activity

The need for the body and the money make them do so. They have the monstrous lust to get that body. They think that this is no loss and a big profit business and instantly they get the money. In the case of relatives, they need the body and the money both so they stole the girls from their homes only and get her body for himself and then sold to another monster so save himself for the future punishment. But they don’t know that they themselves take the birth from that womb they tore badly.

How girls been snatched in this world

Most of the girls are the victims of the situation or trapped by the relative’s ill minds or stole by the brokers from different areas especially from poor families girls. In many cities, there are so many places where these girls are brought to sell. Broker decides the rate of girls according to the demand. Once she has been sold, she loses all her rights over her body. Every day a new monster come and hunt her body and soul without showing pity for her. Girls are treated as a product display on the store. Her owner fixes the high rate on the girls on demand and in returns, he just gave her food, clothes, makeup product, some money and place to live.

Is this a high profile fashion

This is really shocking that some girls are doing by their own desire. This was something unacceptable to me so I went to those girls and asked for the reason for going in this industry. I found the reason which was truly unacceptable to me. They said that they do this just for maintaining their high profile in front of all and for this they need money.

 But why this business only….??

They think that this is the place where earning is maximum with minimum time. They modulated their mind such that they are ready to sell their soul to the monsters.

How sale is applicable to the girls

In this business three things are most desirable, on that basis they fix the rate of girl. Frist the physicality of the girl, second the beauty of the girl and the last and the most important is the age of the girl. Age means the girls of age 10-15 years. They are in high demand and sold at the high price to the old or big age monsters. Her owner hires an experienced girl to make her learn about this body business. She has no option to resist and she forced to learn. If any girl tries to fight or escape then either she has been killed or tortured badly.

Every girl comes with a story of trauma but feels the same pain. Some girls are stole by brokers and some by their own relatives. But the biggest sorrow is that this is increasing and no one is taking proper actions against them.

Their journey of dreams is being crushed badly by the protector.  There is one good thing is that the government is making some schools for that trauma suffering girls make them forget what had happened to them.

A Way to happiness

Follow your heart and break all the social prison

A way to happiness

Happiness is not what we can see, happiness is that what we can feel. The most costly thing in this world is time and at this time to earn happiness is hardest. But we people find a way even actually and sometimes happiness find us. But sometimes we behave monotonously. To earn happiness you need not bother about money, enjoying in the weather, listening to the bird’s chattering, feeling the power of the air, seeing the raindrops, all these things affect us for powering up the soul.

I’m sharing all this to make you feel that this isn’t just a rainy season. It is much more than anything, This is the way to happiness.

When the weather is cool then we find those things which energize us like having coffee, samosas, sweet corns. Ahh… all these things inherent those feelings which nobody can describe in just a few words. If you are just sitting in home and working all the time on the laptop, watching television and instructing everybody to do your work then you are blocking your happiness. Go find a place which soothes your mind and I’m sure that this beautiful weather will support you definitely. Some easy ways we can follow to make this happen.

  • Not just talk over the phone, go and meet your buddies.

 

  • Don’t follow the car, go with the bikes on the long empty road.

 

  • Hygiene is good but this time try to eat roadside food and that will surely make your day memorable. And it could be your favorite food also.

 

  • Forgot to put your rain cost with yourself and let that make your buddies crazy as you are now.

 

  • Follow the music of rain and dance to the fullest and I’m sure if you never ever tried this then this gonna be a terrific moment for your whole life. Try all this with your family and make them crazy too.

 

  • Try to make your food as followed by the ancient methods like our grandmother or great grandmother used to make the food. This will ignite the excitement in the heart of kids.

When we grow older then these thing doesn’t affect us a lot. We think that as stupid things or we feel that this could be an awkward moment for us. But trust me that kid is still alive in the heart anywhere, we just need to free it from the social prison. Your mother, your father, your grandfather, I mean to everybody who hesitates to do this. Involve them and make their day also memorable. This is the feeling you can never ever have in the summer days or any other season so enjoy this little happiness and capture this in your heart. Do romance, care, love, dance because this day not gonna come again.

 

 

 

 

Why can’t we be smart in front of the smartphone

Save your kids and yourself for being a slave of smartphone

We are 7.2 billion and I think most of us have the smartphone in our pocket. As we are progressing we think that smartphone is helping us for being smart. Yes!! I’m not denying that fact too. This is our today’s demand every after single step we feel its requirement. More than our partner we spend our time with this. We keep on updating our self about current affairs, news, fluctuating rates of stocks, I mean to everything from just a single phone. How amazing is this, whenever and whatever I want to know is just one click away from it.

Imagine, that you are walking to the roadside and someone steals your phone from your pocket and after sometimes you realized your missing phone. I can understand that feeling very well, at that moment you’ll feel like you’ve been lost in that crowded place. Suddenly your happiest mood turns to your worst mood and you’ll be panic like you’ve lost your family member in a fair. And after some time, you’ll start realizing that you even can’t live without it and all your important work will come at that moment only. I know this feeling is really common and happens to almost everyone.
The need for smart is really high but is it good to make your kids addicted like you are addicting this time badly.

I saw so many examples of addiction in my surrounding. A kid who’s crying for not having food and the mother is trying to feed him forcefully. And after too many failed attempts, she went to the room immediately and pick a phone and play a cartoon video. Seeing this kid started feeling good and start having food. From there it all started. What we are doing, we are soothing their mind with all these digital pieces of stuff, we are feeding a message that food is equal to phone and after sometimes it will come to his demand and later on its habit.

As I remember, when the phone comes to this world they have very less memory so we hardly feed more than 100 contacts. If we want to feed another number then we have to feed in our mind only so somehow it doesn’t affect on our memory. But today’s scenario is like that mobile phone memory is inversely proportional to our brain memory.

While we are leaving home for going outside then we never ever forgot keeping the phone but we forget to have our wallet our important document, spare keys and sometimes we even forgot to wear pants. At a worst case if you forgot to have your mobile phone then immediately your wife/husband or your kids will memorize you. This much you and your surrounding are addicted to that device.

Ok, now you are in your workplace and your colleagues are talking to you and you are also responding to them very well but by having the phone in your hands. Do it by yourself talking to your colleagues by having the phone and without having it in your hands. You’ll feel some other feelings more attachment, more confidence, and a better communication.

If I talk about kids then giving them the phone at an early age is good but that should be in a controlled way. Controlled way means that as a parent you yourself decide the time for the phone after that say no for the phone. Never give the phone to them when they are going to play in the playground, on the dining table, on school time, on family time and you yourself never show that the phone is much important to them.

we call our phone as a smartphone because it works for us according to our requirement and gives information about almost everything but think, behind a smartphone, there is always a smart mind. So use it, take much work from it but do not be the slave of it. Give time to your family, friend, and surrounding and also spend some alone time with yourself alone means you with your inner peace, not with your smartphone.

Decode your partner’s language

A common language of Men and women’s understanding

In the whole world, men say that it is really difficult to understand women and women keep complaining about what men are trying to say. Lot many sarcasm is there for understanding men and women vocabulary but still no results are there. But I must say, in this universe men and women are totally a different creature, their way of thinking, emotions, reaction, behavior, attitudes and facial expressions, all are completely different for the same situation.

Through a research, it is found that if women and men stuck in the same situation then their way of handling situation is completely different they follow the nature’s rules. Women find the solution by keeping heart and mind factor but in the case of men they use 90% of their brain only to find the solution. Their heart and emotions come secondary.

Let us take one example, If there is one intruder like an animal, enters to your home then women think of protecting their family without hurting that animal but men have a quality of hunting and protecting both so at that instant they will think of protecting their family by killing that animal. Their emotions will not affect the decision of protecting the family. It doesn’t mean that they don’t have heart or they are cruel it just an attitude of seeing and handling things because different creature responds differently. This is a set rule of nature.

Nowadays these nature’s qualities have become hard to understand but it’s ok. Today I’ll explain some basic quotes which may make your life easy and understandable toward your partner.

Women’s brogue:

  • If women say ‘YES’

    then don’t get distracted, actually, she is trying to say a ‘Big NO’ and vice verse.

  • I think we need to buy this for us…

Actually, she’s saying that I Badly need this for me. And I want it now.

  • Do whatever you like my baby.

Don’t be happy guys, she’s actually giving a threat that you have to pay for all your sins later in my perfect moment.

  • I think we need to talk seriously.

Boys you are in danger because this time she’s well prepared with a long list of complaints with different attributes that you even can’t imagine in your dreams. And it’s sure that no one can protect you except some almighty powers.

  • I think you need to learn how to communicate with a girl,

    A very famous one, Boys I must say, Just simply say, Yes baby you are right. Play on a safer zone if you want to sleep happily in the night

  • What you can do for me if you love me.

Time to check your pocket and to invest all your savings on her. Good luck

  • NO NO, I’m not sad. I’m perfect, don’t worry.

Actually, she’s is trying to say YES YES I’m in big trouble and you need to do something for me. Actually, in this case, a healthy communication works a lot. Women have a quality of oozing problems just by sharing and after that she makes herself pacific, calm and motionless for some time.

  • I’m not ready for this before marriage

    It means you need to work hard to convince her to make some love. By gifting, making her comfortable, listening to her all the time and arranging a short trip make this happen for you… MAYBE

  • Let’s get married

The highest commitment by a woman explains that you need to be settled according to the need of her family status. So put your shoes on and go to the work and earn money.

  • What you think that I’m getting fatty more and more

I think you need to find a blindfold this time and then put it on your eyes gently, take a deep breath and say… No baby you are looking perfect, I mean this dress is looking fabulous on you.

Men’s brogue:

  • YES, I need this

    It means that yeah I need this. Give it to me. It is that simple that we girls don’t think about it. So be easy on this.

  • I love you, baby…

These fantastic lines come when he is in a deep desire of intimacy. Men never wait for the happy mood they just make it anytime.

  • My mind isn’t working baby…

It reveals the desire and demand for making love. Even if you aren’t in the mood then make this happen to make his mind light and sparking again. And in the morning he will be your slave again.

  • Ok, Let’s get married

I think this time men totally get tired of making love once a month now they need it for all your night and days.

  • You are looking sexy

 Actually, he’s imagining you naked and he’s in a deep yearning of making night colorful.

  • I’m busy right now

Then he actually needs some alone time. So girls don’t think that he’s ignoring you and want to a breakup or something else. He simply needs some alone time and nothing else.

  • I’ll call you later…

It’s a small demonstration that he is in middle of something or with someone. Just give him some time and he will surely call you back with lots of love.

Today I try to decode some common quotes from men and women. These are some simple way of understanding your partner’s feelings and thoughts. And I believe that this small spark is enough to light up all the garden of love.

 

Time to celebrate Monsoon

Enjoy the power of rain but some precautions are mandatory

In our four seasons, we all eagerly wait for the monsoon known as earth’s most productive season. This year also monsoon has been hit our land and our heart. This is one of the God’s beauties which comes after the summer to give us a heavenly feeling on the earth and a relief from the deadly heatstrokes.

Monsoon, a pleasant and watery weather which ravishes the greenery, cherish the beauty of heart and gives a pleasant peace to all human beings. This is also known as a weather of love, romance and kindness. I Think we all love rain and its power of beauty to spread happiness all over the world.

To celebrate this season we must take care of some important factors which help to protect you completely from uninvited guests like bacterias. By taking care of these small factors you may happily celebrate with your loved ones, not with the doctors.

Some crucial and fundamental protections are…

  • Drink more and more water as you can

In this humid season we avoid drinking water because we don’t feel thirst due to this we suffer from the insufficiency of water. This invites many health-related problems.

  1. Take green tea in the morning
  2. Drink fresh fruit juice or tetra packaging juice stored in dry places
  3. Avoid taking alcohol in this season
  • Do not attract with open-air outsider fast food

When the weather is chilled then it is obvious that you must attract to outsider food but this is an open invitation to many diseases like food poisoning, stomach cramps, infection, fever and many more. So this season, we mustn’t go for open-air food rather than we can go for homemade fresh food(mommy’s food).

  • Protect yourself from mosquito attack

Like us, mosquitos also enjoys the rainy weather but their enjoyment can become a big threat for us. They spread many diseases like Dengue, Malaria, Chikungunya, Zika virus and many more. So while going outside we must use mosquito repellent to protect our self from mosquitoes attacks.

  • Wash your hand with anti-bacterial soap

In this wettish season, moister inherent on your hands all the time and gives birth to bacterias. When we grab anything for our mouth then these enter through our hand. So this is important to wash hand every time with anti-bacterial soap.

  • Avoid touching your eyes with wet hands

Hands are the best medium for spreading bacterias inside our body and eyes are most sensitive part of our body and can easily be affected from bacterias and may create some serious infections like conjunctivitis, itching, redness of eyes and many more. So we must take a proper attention while touching eyes from moist hands.

  • After wetting in rain, take a proper shower

Enjoying in rain gives peace of mind and feeling of assuagement but it is mandatory to take shower after that because a lot many bacterial infections occur in humid places. On increasing pollution rates in cities may cause a acid rain that we couldn’t see but their effects are visible on skins.

  • Always carry your umbrella

You can’t predict rain every second or even after prediction you need an instant safety and umbrella is the best option for that.

  • Make yourself completely dry after wetting in rain

Wearing wet cloths may produce many bacteria’s which creates a foul smell from your clothes. So try to make yourself dry as soon as possible.

  1. Use of sundry cloths
  2. Use of anti-bacterial talcum powder
  • Do not wear wet clothes

We never mind if clothes are a little bit wet. This is good on summers but on monsoon time this may create serious health issues like

  1. Skin Rashes
  2. Vaginal yeast infection
  3. Skin yeast infection
  4. Itching
  • Take a proper sunbath

Rain is pleasant but comes with lot many diseases and sunbath is the proper treatment for all these diseases. Sunbath in this season gives a bacterial protection shield for your body.

  • Use silica gel for your clothes

Silica gel has a quality of absorbing moister from the atmosphere. These come into packets and by putting it only on the clothes you can protect them from the nauseating and icky smell.

 

we are “THE OUTSIDERS”

This blog is totally dedicated to the era of our college time life. Everybody loves to hang out with friends and for this, there is no repression neither time nor anything. I think everybody has a group in which some are day’s scholar and some are hosteller. And for having a get-together we always try to find a new place to hang out. In the journey of college time we try not repeat any places and for this, we always go for the hunt of new places. Actually, the place doesn’t matter, what matters is the love and bonding we share during the journey. Outing with friends is the most pleasuring thing in this world. At every moment you feel adventures, thrill, and contentment. 

A way to trip

And what about plannings, I don’t think so it will work in this case.  Behind every successful outing, there is always an unsuccessful planning. But we still try to make this happen. Its kind of, we are going for the gold digging with all the required equipment, map, and many more pieces of stuff. I think this is more than this.

                         Unconditional bonding

Where to go

For this, we take hours and days to think about it but always random planning’s get successful. This happens because we all have different moods and taste and it will take some time to synchronize it properly.

Exhibition

Time to collect the money

When the place is decided then what’s next. Sometimes budget deicide the place so we do collect best possible pocket money for this. And for setting this all, makes a lot of fun because we finish it by having lots of chiller ( money in the form of coins) in our hands.

A short budget trip
Pocket money

Arrangement of transportation

The arrangement of bikes and scooter and borrowing it from others is a big task. If the journey is long then transportation is not a big issue but for the journey within our arena, we need to take care of so many aspects of security and safety and many more.

Camera Time

This being a favourite part of us. These are not just pictures we take, these all are memories that we take with our self forever. Everybody hates for being cameraman so having selfies is the best option ever. By seeing these pictures after a long time rejuvenates us completely.

Every time love for Chai (Tea)

I think this is a kind of power drink for us. Fooding for sometimes and Chai for every time and longtime. When we all got tired then chai being the favourite part for us.

Chai

There are so many elements of outing, once you get into this you’ll realize how beautiful is this. But the life is running fast so rather concentrate on living life and capturing moments. As the time passes our priorities also change but these moments you can never prioritize.

 

 

 

 

Height VS High

hey guys!!

I’m here again with my new topic. I know this is a little bit flaky but this is kinda highbrow. I got this thought by seeing and observing some of girls and boys in a purposeful platform. This is the matter of that time when I went to a beauty pageant event, there I was filling up the form for entrance but soon I realize that I’m not an eligible person for that because I’m 5’2 only. That was a disappointing moment for me But later I saw all the questions that all are about you and your inner self. Those questions are only round about your personality, attitude and about your inner beauty. I was a bit curious to answer all question and then I submitted my questionnaire went back to home.

Soon I realized that there are so many girls and boys who are willing to be beauty pageant but just because of short height they are lagging. I wrote this topic for those who think that height really matters in the real world.

Height actually represents your physical appearance and add some sparkle to your personality. But High Attitude definitely takes you to another level of the world.

I think there shouldn’t be any criteria for creating any kind of competition. Because you never know how and when people reveal the best of himself. Physically appearance does matter a lot but by bounding yourself in that criteria is not a good option at all. I met so many persons with short heightened with high attitude but for them, there is no space in fashion fiesta. So this time my big high for those who have the charm to spread in the world with their high attitude.

 

Roadside Pottery

Clay is the uppermost part of the earth and easily available everywhere. In a simple way, we can say that It’s the origin of life. In our ancient time, we use clay to make our daily uses things. But in the era of metals, we completely turn into it. But somewhere it is alive, our ancient artistry in the form of beauty.
While wondering to the roadside, I saw different kind of virtuosity made up of earthenware. Every single piece was a masterpiece. At a first sight when I saw them, I was surprised that they are argil piece. I’ll tell you why we should go for this argil pieces right below of this.
Best pick up for Home Decor:
Home decor is a very important thing for every person. we are so much finicky while selecting anything for home decor. And these masterpieces I’ll tell you, are amazing and worthy too. These are completely a clay-based material and painted with some radiant colours.

Home decor pottery
Borough beauty

 

An Eco-Friendly decor:

These are clay-based material so they will never harm the atmosphere by any means. These are beautiful as well as eco- friendly too. Nowadays we are going to the plastic material because of so much variety and in trend too. But these are non-disposable material. These materials are neither eco-friendly nor friendly to health. In the case clay-based material, they help in both of the ways.

Auspicious Lord Ganesha pottery
Cost Effective:

There are lots of material available in the market like china material, porcelain material, cork material, mixed metals, and wood. All looks refined and classy but moreover, these are very costly to afford every human being. So rather than going for these materials, we can go for argil pieces for home decor. These are not only popularly priced but also beauteous to the decor. My suggestion is to buy these items from the roadside market rather than from any showroom because you’ll find a big difference in price. And the best thing is that you can do bargaining up to your pocket limit.

Musical art pottery
A tribute to Ancient Artistry:

As all, we know that we are going far away to our ancient technique. But all these techniques belong to a different kind of intellection which is helpful in all the ways to human beings. By using these techniques we can also save the environment too. Wood is also an option for eco-friendly decor but as the reducing quantity of trees, these are also harming the environment.

Animal toys of earthenware
A pottery for birds in the summer for water

There are many more options available for clay-based material in the market rather than home decor such as for cooling water, playing toys, potting flowers and many more. These are easily available in the market and mostly available in the roadside market. So go and hunt your real-steal product this season for your home decor.

Making of my life in the Hostel

HOSTEL seems a very small word but this is a place where a person learns lots of the basic lessons of life. I hope, most of the experienced this phase of life and if anyone not experienced this then I suggest you to guys to live this golden life at least once in the life. I’m telling this golden time because I learned reality scenario of the life. As a hosteller, I spend 5years of my life in the hostel.

What makes hostel life different from home life. For this question, there are lots of answers but the main one is THE SURVIVAL OF YOUR REALITY. Here we learn how to survive even in the worst condition and in the best condition.

I’ve clearly remembered my first day in the hostel. I was a bit curious to see my room, where I’ve to spend my whole bachelor life. And later on I got to know that the room is not the only mine, I’ve to spend it with two more. But still I was so happy and a little bit worried to meet my roommates. After that my parents left me alone with that empty room, that time I feel, something is losing from my hand and I cried a lot. Later on, the day’s been cut out from the calendar and I started liking it. But what makes this special and memorable…

Birthday Parties

This is the favourite part of my in hostel life. Our whole hostel group comes to celebrate and to give surprises to the birthday girl. We, secretly plan for the party. And in the night it was like a boom, birthday bombs, the cake cutting ceremony, dance and lots of fun. we hardly can have a single piece of cake to eat because rest of is only for face massage.

Birthday Decoration
Handmade card decore
Late Night Study

Ahh… When a word study comes to my mind, then it definitely relates to exams of course. Even in the 4:00 am and its feel like, there is Diwali in the hostel. Some of studying on the stairs, some on the balcony and the room is like a marriage hall. And yes, this is the coffee time now and that time Maggie had been a national food for us. we exactly relate our hunger with Maggie.

Choco crust and Vanilla valley
Warden Terror

Warden cum harridan is like a terror in our life. we used to call her with different funny names. Her universal dialogs, midnight checking, ever-changing rules and late night dramas all are so special to me. Though, that time I got frustrated but later on It’s being a fun challenge for us.

Hostel Food

I’ve heard lots of stories about the hostel food and I like that food of the starting months. But as the time passes, we totally got bored of that. So most of the time we order something or go to any Dhabas and all.

Friday special
Pizza Party
Washroom Fight

That is the funniest part of the hostel, early morning everybody is in a rush to go to college so the fight starts occupying the washroom first. We used to set our bucket in the night only because there is a rule to take bath according to your bucket number and we definitely, go to someone else bucket number. And after that, you’ll see a different kind of cat fights.

Ambulance Time

Once in a week, definitely there is one girl who got sick. For that, we girls are ever ready to go to the hospital. Yes, there is care factor but more of this we got a chance to go outside in the middle of the night. later on whenever we want to have something outsider food then we got sick or make sick someone else forcefully. And the best drama queen becomes the patient.

These are some things which make hostel life is a survival life. we learn to behave, react to the situation and to learn all kind of makeup courses. There are different kind of girls from different places with a different attitude and to live with them learns us to polish our endurance.

Let’s do for love

What makes relationship alive

Every person in this world is bounded by a relation which has different names defined by us.  But today I made myself specified on talking about the love relationship between a girl and a boy. I talked too many couples and asked them many questions to find it out, what actually makes any relationship alive. I found many conceptions and from there I come to a conclusion. I hope guys this would help you to understand what is basic and minute things you can do to make your relationship virginal and alive.

love in the air

The relationship is like a flower, how many petals you add in your relationship that much you make your relationship pulchritudinous. Here there are some hashtags which are based on true life probes.

#1    Les space to your expectation

#2    Respect the privacy of your partner

#3    keep on repeating those things which you used to do in your starting               days

#4    Keep surprising to your partner

#5    Make love

#6   Trust

#7   Try to talk to your partner withholding the hand

#8  Try to spend unplanned vacations

# 9  Use eyes rather than word to talk sometimes

#10  Never appraise/compare other with him/her

These are not the hard and fast rule to follow every day all the time, but these are the secret spices which you can sparkle on your bond to make it fresh, dynamic and enlivened.