Rain traffic is the main traffic

Lucknow is in the under coverage of rain

Rain traffic

who doesn’t love rain or walking or spending time in the rain? This season not only soothes our body but also our soul but together with this, we have to face so many problems during traveling. At every next intersection of the road, we see a horror image of rain traffic.

Why this happens and who originate this…??

There is a lot of reason for rain traffic such as population, water logging, destructive roads, improper management of the traffic system in each and every intersection. This seems like smaller issues but increases the loss of life.

The population is the main factor of the traffic and when it combines with the issues from the rain then to manage this becomes really hard and tricky because you have to see all the factors like too much rain creates obstacles for traffic police and most of the time traffic lights also stops working.

The ravine in the roads you can see even in the most of the posh areas. When there is too much rainfall then that ravine is filled with water and in that situation, it’s hard to see or measure the depth of it. This creates an illusion for the person on the vehicle and increases the chance of the accidents. I saw many news about the death from the illusive ravine and that news are very frequent on TV channels. You can protect yourself when you see the danger in front of you but how can we protect yourself from the unseen danger. Nowadays this becomes a big issue to talk about and to make people aware is really important. The Government is also trying to fill that ravine in the rainy season but this is quite impossible to meet the aim in the rainy season. This is one kind of issue that must be in the consideration on the prior basis.

Water Logging is the biggest issues who give birth to many problems. We can clearly see the massive image of roads just after a few hours of rain. Blockage in the canals and improper management o drainage system creates the problem of waterlogging. When the water stuck in the roads then the flow of the traffic also affected in that situation it becomes hard to manage the traffic movement.

waterlogging
How to overcome and protect ourselves…??

Rather than concentrating on the problems, we can focus on solving it. I explained some precautions before facing the danger from rain traffic

  • Maintain your vehicle speed at balance speed and not don’t go more than 40kmph.

 

  • Always wear your helmet and also for your back seat companion.

 

  • Do not go at high speed at the rush areas.

 

  • Give your highest priority to the traffic rule.

 

  • Don’t overload your vehicle in the rainy season.

 

  • Always carry first aid kit with yourself.

Rain traffic has become an evil to human beings. Be careful and alert all the time because no one knows what will happen to the next moment. Enjoy the rain, feel the rain and be safe.

 

 

 

Is Sexual Abuse common or fashion

Girls on demand but nobody knows her demand…

The Lady, a symbol of goddess, love, affection, care, worship, sacrifice called by so many names. But the definition of the lady in an evil mind is different. They treated the lady as a source of earning and self-desire. The rate of victims is increasing day by day. The reason may be different but the motives crime is the same, THE BUSINESS OF BODY. This is considered as an evergreen business. Every day so many girls stole and sold.

How people provoked to do such a horrendous activity

The need for the body and the money make them do so. They have the monstrous lust to get that body. They think that this is no loss and a big profit business and instantly they get the money. In the case of relatives, they need the body and the money both so they stole the girls from their homes only and get her body for himself and then sold to another monster so save himself for the future punishment. But they don’t know that they themselves take the birth from that womb they tore badly.

How girls been snatched in this world

Most of the girls are the victims of the situation or trapped by the relative’s ill minds or stole by the brokers from different areas especially from poor families girls. In many cities, there are so many places where these girls are brought to sell. Broker decides the rate of girls according to the demand. Once she has been sold, she loses all her rights over her body. Every day a new monster come and hunt her body and soul without showing pity for her. Girls are treated as a product display on the store. Her owner fixes the high rate on the girls on demand and in returns, he just gave her food, clothes, makeup product, some money and place to live.

Is this a high profile fashion

This is really shocking that some girls are doing by their own desire. This was something unacceptable to me so I went to those girls and asked for the reason for going in this industry. I found the reason which was truly unacceptable to me. They said that they do this just for maintaining their high profile in front of all and for this they need money.

 But why this business only….??

They think that this is the place where earning is maximum with minimum time. They modulated their mind such that they are ready to sell their soul to the monsters.

How sale is applicable to the girls

In this business three things are most desirable, on that basis they fix the rate of girl. Frist the physicality of the girl, second the beauty of the girl and the last and the most important is the age of the girl. Age means the girls of age 10-15 years. They are in high demand and sold at the high price to the old or big age monsters. Her owner hires an experienced girl to make her learn about this body business. She has no option to resist and she forced to learn. If any girl tries to fight or escape then either she has been killed or tortured badly.

Every girl comes with a story of trauma but feels the same pain. Some girls are stole by brokers and some by their own relatives. But the biggest sorrow is that this is increasing and no one is taking proper actions against them.

Their journey of dreams is being crushed badly by the protector.  There is one good thing is that the government is making some schools for that trauma suffering girls make them forget what had happened to them.

I learned this from my hostel classroom

Chapters to be continued…

Hostel time is a classroom of experiences, the experience of life. Wherever you go, you fall, you stand and learn how to walk this is a circle of life. After that, you made your rules according to the priority for living life. Just like all, I learned so many lessons from my hostel life and to share them with you guys will make me feel pleasure. And I’m sure these small lines will surely make big difference in your life.

Getting the success and the achievements are different but learning the lesson of life is a different thing. You will never know when small things will become a large thing and sometimes to understand that you need to go beyond your peace and imagination. People will use you and will take the advantage of your care and innocence. This will become a slow process if you ignore the instruction give below about your inner peace of the life.
When we enter the room first, everything seems to be yours and all the people will behave like you are with your best innocent buddies. And later on, we keep sharing about the life for being close. Yes, some people will be good and be like you but to understand this you need to give a proper time to understand them before making any bond with them.

  • Never trust the people at the time of your initial days.

 

  • Never share your personal problem and secret at a very early stage. No matter how best he/she is. At least give 7-8 months to your friendship to differentiate between real and fake one.

 

  • Never try to be mediocre, if you try to be then you’ll become the victim of the situation.

 

  • Never trust the one who tries to be overfriendly or cares too much.

 

  • Never care too much for anyone because once you are mistaken at any moment, they will ignore all your efforts and care and will remember your unfavorable part until the end.

 

  • Never react to the situation so early because you never know who is provoking you or trying to make you as a victim.

 

  • Try to complain less about any situation. Less complaining will lead you to less vibration of peace.

 

  • Never try to involve in calling in the late night at the starting. This may resist your craving or pleasure but trust me this will save you from the garbage minds.

 

  • Always remember your motives, for which you are there. Put your more focus on that rather than any pleasure or distractive matter.

 

  • Always maintain a proper distance from negativity and negative people. They will come to you in the form of attraction and distraction and both are dangerous to you.

 

  • People will try to impress you by giving compliments and appraisal but it is your responsibility to understand the motives behind that. For this, you need to accept that compliment with a big smile but not to be affected by that.

Everyone tries to be king in front of all and for that, they will try to push you down to show them up. You can also be a part of tactics of some bad peoples but the best way to detach yourself without overreacting.

These are some point which I feel I should adopt but some situation isn’t our hand they heel by the time only so without worrying maintain all your focus on your aim rather than any game. And trust me with this you will win your race without defeating anyone and be repeating any mistake.

 

Is election provoke the trolling…??

The election 2019 is coming and as the time is reaching to polling place all the political parties is getting active in social media and around the public. They are giving the speech of development and their work and arguing with each other for showing their best part in front of the public. This is good to represent yourself in the public but trolling doesn’t make any sense to prove yourself and to show to the another one wrong.

Every party is throwing allegation on the other parties in their speech and in the social media. But nowadays as the election is at its peak everybody is getting active in social media. Getting active in social media is not the issue but trolling is making problem to everyone.

When I put my TV channel on I just see the parties doing conferences and if any party says anything that becomes a matter of controversy and from there trolling starts. One party trolling the other one and the chain goes on. Some people think if we do troll against the other party then we become famous and get publicity for their personal profile in social media. Some people do this just because of controversy and throwing allegation and for the other one that becomes a chance to talk about.

We the public never think any pros and cons before any trolling. Sometimes it harms us also. Listening to only one side and without analyzing giving reaction on that becomes a controversial matter. The rate of trolling is increasing day by day as the elections are coming. But it is a matter of thinking that who is provoking you to do that or you yourself are a victim of the situations or you are making someone task easier. Trolling in the political benefits is not a good thing. In this case, we should aware of our actions.

Trolling is not only a crime but also a emotional abuse. So try not to do this with anyone for any cause.

A blend of the homemade and the readymade

Homemade is Readymade and readymade is homemade

The era of homemade things is back now. People are getting attracted towards homemade things again but still, they have some craze of readymade things because they look beautiful and well packed. You can easily find out the readymade things everywhere from the kitchen to the bedroom. The reason could be anything, your laziness or the lack of time.

What made people attracted to the readymade things:

In this fast running world, people don’t have time and for saving time they spend money. For making food from chopped vegetable to readymade spices are available in the market. The one who isn’t working or busy they also got attracted towards the readymade things because this is simple and take less time and physical stamina to execute the work. This is as simple as buying the things and making the things at any field. This is good for those who are unable to make things or they just want the things at the early time. So many factors involved in this favor and we all agree with that but lagging in one factor that is health.

Is this adaptable in future…??

Though this is good for so many factors but health is the only issue in which everybody lags. When Readymade things are made then industries ignore so many health factors just because of the bulk production. Added colors, fillers, material to increase the quantity, these all make product beautiful and quantitative but not qualitative. If we talk about the future aspect then fully dependance on readymade things is not good. It is a slow poison that we’re taking and its effects will reflect after sometimes in our body and especially in the brain. So It’s good if we take it in a proper amount for our body. Money can be earned but not the health.

Why the era of homemade things is back now:

When the focus of people changes then to earn money they totally ignore their health and attracted toward the readymade things. But after sometimes their effects start increasing like hair fall, early age hair whiting, pimples, weakness of eyesight, internal body diseases and many more. And after the doctor consultancy, they explained the origin of all these issues. From there the era of homemade things come back. No doubt they are good with no side effects but it takes some time to prepare well. But now the people are aware towards their health rather than anything. So there should be a perfect blend of readymade and homemade things because eventually, these all belong to you.

 

conciliate your controversy

Where there are thoughts there must be clashing over thoughts, called controversy. This has two phases, one that opposes the dominating view or rules so that no one can fulfill their self-will and in the second category those people come who can’t accept the change and that become the origin of controversy. Sometimes this becomes beneficial and sometime this delayed for making any good change for future.

We face controversy at every step, whatever the other one doesn’t like that become the controversy. Some got affected and some become the victim of it. We can’t say that this is good or bad but it is most important to face every controversy very wisely and happily. This could be a matter of discussion or the argument.

Today I’m here to help you out to face the controversy issues…

  • First, listen then reply but do not react.

 

  • Keep calm yourself because they want to control your mind.

 

  • Don’t let anyone enter your tranquil zone.

 

  • The one who listens to the end and then react that becomes the king.

 

  • Faith in your thought is important but never hesitate to welcome the other one’s thoughts.

 

  • Every thought has two vision with this you can convince the other one without superimposing.

 

  • Focus yourself on the conclusion rather than proving yourself.

 

  • Respect the other one’s thoughts and if they have better thought then accept them and if not then help them to keep out of the situation but do not criticize.

 

  • Some people don’t want to listen to your thought even, for this you need to improve your convincing power on your faiths.

 

  • When it’s the matter of taking a decision then listen to every thought but do whatever your inner faith says.

At your every action people want to control and if you don’t listen or follow them, they make a controversy against you but don’t worry do your action, have faith and one day you will definitely win your war. Life is all about playing your role so try to face every situation no matter how hard it is. Sometimes controversy tries to lag you but have faith but never prove your faith.

Finding a secure place

I’m not safe here…

This is an urge from a brother to his sister for not keeping her safe but to keep himself safe.  The number of rape victims is increasing day by day. I don’t know the initiation of this raunchy and monstrous crime but one thing I know that the whole earth is crying.

The situation is getting worse day by day. Every minute in the world a girl is being harassed. In ancient time people feel blessed to have a girl, they think that a goddess comes to their home by nowadays people are afraid of having a girl as a child just because of the present situation.

Whenever I opened a news channel every time I found a girl victim suffering from this trauma. Parents think that they aren’t safe outside but inside there is no place for her.

Brother is considered as a guard of sister but nowadays he is demanding his protection. people say that girls are not protected in this world but today’s situation is like that a boy with a girl is not protected.

The monsters are running everywhere to hunt an innocent soul as they hunt their protector also. What kind of lust is this…?? They are hunting the one who gave the birth, who made us.

Psychology says that the one who did this heinous crime lost their mental awareness. They consider a girl as a prey and their lust and the monster inside them does everything. But who knows one day you can also be a prey of someone else. This is a chain, once put your first step in the mud, It is sure that your sins will follow your footprints and will reach to you one day.

I remember one crime, a school girl was going back home with her brother. She had been raped by a gang and later killed by them in front of her brother. Her brother was also killed by them. What were the feeling and the situation she was feeling when she was with her brother? I know she was feeling safe with her brother but that become a repent for her because her brother was killed because of her.

This is a very sensitive matter and we should talk and make every individual aware of this sensitivity. Every human being is special, no matter what gender you are having but there should respect and sense of protection for every human being. There is no book no theory, this is all about your seeing the God’s creatures.  

Mood swings in Men

Generally, we heard that girls have mood swings before their menstrual cycle but we never observed that boys have too. In the case of girls, they draw more attention to you before their periods. Their behavior and actions are visible and noticeable. These all changes are scientifically proven also and happens because of the hormonal changes during that time.
In the case of men, they don’t have periods but have the period of mood swings which we rarely noticed. Some men have short-term mood swings and some have long-term. But we girls rarely noticed it because we think that they have been changed completely by their behavior. But I’ve bird eye view for this situation. It’s a matter of understanding if you love and care for someone, then you need to understand some factors about mood swings.

Long-term mood swing:

In this category, men who are suffering from career settlement, family problems or any other trauma comes. When everything settled down their phase for mood swing also ends. But some women fail to understand and thinks that as their a permanent behavior. This isn’t a permanent behavior this is an undesirable situation in which they need our full support to come out.

Short-term mood swings:

This category is very normal and happens almost to every man. This doesn’t come by any specific hormonal changes so this is very unusual and no one noticed even. During this time their behavior becomes aggressive, overprotective, sarcastic and many more. In a simple way, they unfollow their nature and start behaving bizarrely. So rather than fighting with them, we should love them more and more to help them out from that situation.

Behavior under vigilance:
  • They will try to fight more and more in a very stupid matter and later on they themselves laugh on that.
  • Reflexive reaction is very common during this period.
  • They will refuse to be physical in that certain time.
  • They will expect sensibility more in that situation.
  • Every time doubting your work.
  • Perfection mode is on for their soundings and loves ones.
  • Sometimes they’ll try being wild to show their dominance.

Every man has different behavior so their mood swings also change varies with time and so as their time duration. So these modes can be and can’t be your partner’s behavior but mood swings are very common in men also.

 

lack of time

Do we have a lack of Time?

We have already heard a lot that time never waits for anyone. Till now we have touched unapproachable sky limits under and above. We are working to make Mars as our second home. But beyond all this time is the only thing in which people have no control over it.

For a better survival in this world, money is the leading factor. We spend our whole day and night to earn money and at the last, we even don’t have time to spend it wisely and happily. I met many people facing this exact situation but they made themselves happy in a very smart convincing manner. We sacrifice our family time to make our family happy. We even don’t take proper attention towards our health and we called that we don’t have sufficient time for this. But we are right that we don’t have time to live in a fast running and unstoppable race of the world. We don’t have time to eat, sleep and breathe even. We are aging by time and mind but our soul is caged in the net of time.

I’ve talked to many people from different areas and about 98% are suffering from stress. For this, we can follow many easy steps which I’m currently using. This isn’t about hard and fast rules or any philosophical method. For living life just a little bit awareness about yourself is sufficient. If you are office working, then being single-minded for work can make your time stressful. We can start wishing to those to whom we never talk and to can be sarcastic in the middle of the work. Smiling is the best way to make your stressful time even more light. That is your atmosphere so why can’t we make it a happy environment.

Electrolyzing of time for relations and work can help you to live in a better way. Leave your entire work pressure and aggression till the office border only and while you are leaving office then make sure that you are now completely detached. While entering to home attaches yourself with those relations for whom you are living, laugh, eat, sit together and gather memories. All the success stories, love stories start with the time and end with the time only so rather than focusing on earning stress we can concentrate on living life. And remember lack of time is not the problem flowing of time in an uncertain way creates the problems.